Slightly abridged with the author’s permission from Neuromarketing.
Marketers are being offered unprecedented new capabilities to target consumers by interests and behavior. There’s growing evidence, though, that consumers are finding these personalized pitches off-putting. A new survey of UK social media users showed that nearly half “don’t like having ads targeted to them based on information included in their social media profiles, including activities, interests, and other personal data.”
The positive spin, I suppose, is that the other half is fine with personalized ads, but this high level of negative sentiment has to be troubling to marketers who are counting on targeting and personalization to improve the effectiveness of their ads. Yet I believe there are ways to reduce the probability that consumers will find targeted pitches creepy instead of appealing.
Target, Don’t Over-Personalize
I highly recommend an excellent New York Times article by Charles Duhigg, How Companies Learn Your Secrets, which uses Target as a case study of how companies can mine behavioral data to gain startling insights about consumers. Target, for example, was able to predict which female customers were pregnant and when they were likely to deliver by seemingly unrelated purchasing patterns for products like lotion. As you can imagine, the potential creepiness factor with such accurate targeting is high.
What did Target do? They broadened their offers for these unannounced mothers-to-be to include a variety of other products so that the baby-related deals looked incidental and normal. This eliminated the, “How do they know? I haven’t told anyone!” problem while still presenting the consumer with highly relevant products.
Ask for Permission
I highlighted some excellent social and other personalization efforts by colleges and universities in a post called Get Schooled.
Certainly, seeing your image, or your friends’ photos, appearing on a website has some creep potential, but these schools all defuse that by asking permission in some way.
In all of these cases, seeing one’s name or photo is fun, not creepy, because it’s expected and voluntary. Finding the personalized content can even become a sort of Easter egg hunt which is rewarded multiple times during the experience.
Stay Positive
One of the experiences that launched my personalization series was spotting my face in a LinkedIn job ad for a specific employer. I was surprised, but not offended or creeped out. I think that’s because the ad was positive in nature—me, hypothetically filling a vaguely relevant role in a quality company.
LinkedIn could see this strategy go wrong, for example, if they observed an individual update their work history to show their position at their current employer stopping but with no new employer starting. If they peppered that individual with ads like, “Need a Job?” or “Get Sacked?” they would likely create plenty of negativity. In the same way, if a non-profit targeted donors with a Facebook photo and a caption like, “Are you starving, Roger? These children are,” the message might be powerful but it would likely create some bad vibes.
Fails Ahead?
I have no doubt that in the coming months we’ll see some major personalization fails by a large organization. If you don’t want to be that company, think before you personalize. Ask yourself, “How could this go wrong?” And, if you can’t think of a way, ask a few creative friends who don’t have anything invested in the project. In just about every case, you should be able to find a way to personalize the offering without being offensive or creepy.
Roger Dooley is a marketing speaker, the founder of Dooley Direct, a neuromarketing and digital marketing consultancy, and author of the blog Neuromarketing and the book Brainfluence (Wiley, November 2011). Twitter: @rogerdooley.




